The Myth of the Perfect Hire

People love to say: “Hire slow, fire fast.”

Nice in theory. Kinda broken in practice.

Because here’s the truth no one puts on their careers page:
You’re not hiring the perfect person. You’re hiring potential.
And then betting your growth, sanity, and culture on how fast that potential can turn into impact.

Let’s kill the fantasy up top:
No one walks into a new company knowing your tools, quirks, culture, systems, unspoken expectations, and weird Slack etiquette. Even the most seasoned pro is starting from scratch — just with a fancier vocabulary.

I’ve had the “perfect hire” on paper.
And I’ve had the underdog who didn’t tick all the boxes but showed up hungry, asked the right questions, and made themselves indispensable.

Guess which one stuck?

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Hire the Brain, Train the Muscle

Skills can be taught.
Mindset? That’s the make-or-break factor.

Give me someone with curiosity, initiative, and grit over someone who’s spent a decade doing the same thing at three different companies.

At Nexubis, we’ve seen it firsthand:
Some of our strongest team members were wildcards when they joined. They didn’t have all the experience — but they had something more important: ownership. The instinct to solve problems without being asked. The drive to figure things out. The ability to adapt, fast.

Compare that to someone who checked every box on paper but stalled out in reality. It’s not even close.

Patty McCord, Netflix’s former Chief Talent Officer, said it best:

“What you want is someone who understands the job, loves the work, and is wired to do it — and do it with energy.”

If you find that person?
Hold on tight.

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You're Not Hiring for Today

You’re hiring for six months from now.
Twelve. Eighteen.

Startups move. Fast.
The role you’re hiring for now? It won’t look the same in a year.
So you need people who don’t just do the work — they grow with the work.

That means when you’re hiring, you’re not just filling a role.
You’re seeding your future leadership.

And if you get it wrong?
You’re not just dealing with underperformance.
You’re slowing the whole company down.

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Why This Matters More in Startups

Because early-stage companies don’t have benchwarmers.
Everyone is a starter. Everyone plays multiple positions.

There’s no luxury of deadweight.
One low-ownership hire can drag the whole squad.

And there’s no point dreaming of scale if the people around you can’t scale with it.

So what do you do?
You hire the sharpest minds you can find — even if they’re green.
You back them with clear expectations, real responsibility, and trust.
You bet on them.
And more often than not, they pay that bet back in full.

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TL;DR

There is no perfect hire.
There’s only potential — and your ability to develop it.

Mindset beats pedigree.
Every. Single. Time.

Startups don’t need passengers.
They need people who drive.

So stop trying to recruit unicorns.
And start building them.